Cougar or kitten? What happens when a casual hook up blossoms into something else? That’s terrific unless he thinks your 25 but you are actually 30. Age shouldn’t matter but lying about your age is a bad idea. Eventually, he’ll see your driver’s license, birth certificate and then what? Tell the truth about your age. If you weren’t honest in the beginning, at least come clean now.
All the guys I’ve loved before… Short of straight up lying about your virginity, there’s really no reason to lie about your sexual history. If he’s really into you, your intimate past is your own and it’s none of his business. Don’t tell if you don’t want to but don’t lie.
Fluffing up your resume. Faking a degree, pretending to speak a foreign language, lying about a summer abroad painting your way through Paris. These seem like harmless conversation starters but when these aren’t true you’ll end up looking D-U-M-B! Do talk about what your dreams and goals area. Don’t pad your personal achievements by claiming accolades you don’t deserve.
Not talking about known STDs. Yeah, that’s a lie! Not telling is as bad as lying, especially when someone’s health is in question. Always tell your sexual partner about any sexually transmitted diseases you have. Have a care for others and practice safe sex and be honest.
I must have sex. Here’s a lie we tell ourselves. Do these sound familiar? “It’s the third date; he expects me to have sex,” or “If I don’t have sex, I’ll lose him.” Don’t believe it. Sex under duress feels a lot like well, we won’t say the word but it’s wrong. Don’t have sex just because you think he expects it.
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